Whenever we ask women about their experiences with online dating, one thing comes up more often than others: Liars. Time and time again, frustrated users or ex-users of online dating services tell us how many times they’ve been lied to by women that they’ve met on this sites and apps. Liars. Sounds simple enough, right?

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Last week, I wrote to you about the transitions that can happen during the course of a relationship. This week, let’s take a little bit of a step back and ask whether you are really ready for a long-term relationship. It’s something that a lot of single folks claim they want. We live in a

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I write to you on a sweltering week day, as I sit outside with our dog Brooklyn, a week after returning from our first vacation in about a year and a half! Whew! With that in mind, I want to write to you about the importance of taking a pause. Pam and I have been

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So the last time, I talked about how to determine whether something was a red flag or not. That begged a discussion about how picky is TOO picky? If you have a laundry list of red flags, does that now make you TOO picky? Exactly how many red flag items does it take to make

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I write this to you today as I am sitting outside, enjoying a little springtime sunshine while I watch our dog hunt landscapers (she and landscapers have a mostly one-sided hate-filled relationship). This weather has been promised to us for a long time – well, for a week. It feels longer. I checked the forecast

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