So, Pam and I never really thought much about Costa Rica. We have a long (and growing!) list of places that we want to visit. I don’t know that Costa Rica was on the list. It wasn’t that we didn’t want to go there; it’s that we didn’t think about Costa Rica at all. Yeah,

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So, a few nights ago, Pam and I sat on a panel at an event sponsored by one of the many (too many) Facebook groups of which we are members. This group is lesbian focused and the panel was a discussion about relationships, led by Pam and I and another married lesbian couple.  The audience

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Alright, so let’s get right to it. I’m going to stay with our impromptu lying/honesty theme this week and address another sore spot for women trying to navigate these dating streets:  What women say that they want. It’s usually one of two things: either the woman doesn’t know what she wants, or she knows what

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Talker.  That’s one word I can use to describe my dad.  Boy, that man could talk.  He could spend hours on the phone talking. No sooner than he hung up with one person, he’d pick up the phone, dial it, and chat it up with someone else.  You could be a complete stranger and he’d

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