Hello, all! Today is a special day for Pam and I and so we wanted to take a bit of a different approach to our message to you. Today is our 8th wedding anniversary. Yesterday, we celebrated 12 years together. Yes, we dated for 4 years before getting married (and this was post-marriage equality in

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There was a time when I didn’t want to get married. It was the mid to late nineties. I had been with my then-girlfriend of 10 years for a few years. How the discussion of marriage came up, I don’t recall. What I do recall was standing firm on not wanting to get married. I’m

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