What is a healthy relationship? The goal that Pam and I have for you reading this is that you learn to build healthy lesbian relationships. We want people to experience successful relationships. But what is “healthy?” What is a “successful” relationship? The answer isn’t so cut and dried. I think we can all agree that

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Here’s where we are with conversations in modern dating Alright, let’s face it. We’re all adults here. What’s more important is that most of us reading this are middle-aged adults. You might be a little before middle age or just beyond it, but you either will get there or you have been. And being middle-aged

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If you’ve been around Pam and I long enough, then you’ve probably heard us caution people again “u-hauling.” We’ve dropped that gem in videos and right here in your email box. Even baby-lesbians know what U-hauling is, and I’m sure you do too. But just to make sure you’re with me, I’ll briefly explain. U-hauling

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So here we are, entering the holiday season. I love this time of year. Maybe it’s because I’m a December baby? I don’t know. But I love it. I love the general feeling of calm. I love the smell in the air. I love the time spent with family. I know, though, that this isn’t

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When Pam and I talk to either single women or those in the beginning stages of their relationships, one thing we’ve heard is a concern about how you keep the interest in your relationship. From single women, it’s about talking to a potential love interest and then slowly running out of things to talk about.

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