So a few days ago, we spoke with a friend whom we’ve helped revamp her dating profile and dig through the messiness that is getting back into the lesbian dating world (she knows who she is!) She had been on the shelf for a while and is ready to dip her toes back in these

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Hello from hot and steamy New Jersey! I want to step a little bit away from the relationship stuff today and talk about something else (but which still has relationship relevance because of course it does!) So, in the last month or so, Pam and I have been venturing out a bit more. This last

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There are so many options for first dates during the summer months, so many ways that you can experience a new person that you just can’t when it’s cold. But what do YOU think is acceptable for a first date? Do you set boundaries in dating? I’m not talking about activities. Well, maybe I am.

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So the last time, I talked about how to determine whether something was a red flag or not. That begged a discussion about how picky is TOO picky? If you have a laundry list of red flags, does that now make you TOO picky? Exactly how many red flag items does it take to make

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So last time, I wrote about how women oftentimes believe that we can change people, when the truth of the matter is that all we can ever really do is encourage change. It is totally up to the other person to actually make the changes. This leads me to the subject of red flags. Our

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