Whenever Pam and I ask people about their challenges to finding that special someone, a lot of what we hear about is the struggle to find the one that “fits.” But what does it mean to “fit?” Is the right fit someone who is a lot like you? Or is it someone who is nothing
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All of this talk about online dating got me thinking about important transitions during the lifetime of a relationship. What do I mean? If you don’t already know, Pam and I met on match.com. We were living half of a country away – I was in Texas and she was in New Jersey. Neither of
I write to you on a sweltering week day, as I sit outside with our dog Brooklyn, a week after returning from our first vacation in about a year and a half! Whew! With that in mind, I want to write to you about the importance of taking a pause. Pam and I have been
Talker. That’s one word I can use to describe my dad. Boy, that man could talk. He could spend hours on the phone talking. No sooner than he hung up with one person, he’d pick up the phone, dial it, and chat it up with someone else. You could be a complete stranger and he’d
Hello, all! Today is a special day for Pam and I and so we wanted to take a bit of a different approach to our message to you. Today is our 8th wedding anniversary. Yesterday, we celebrated 12 years together. Yes, we dated for 4 years before getting married (and this was post-marriage equality in