Let’s face it: relationships can be hard. Some start off hard, others will likely hit some bumps along the road. The longer you’re with someone, the greater the chances that you’ll hit some rough spots. It happens in every relationship. Even if the troubles aren’t directly related to the two of you, there will be

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So, Pam and I never really thought much about Costa Rica. We have a long (and growing!) list of places that we want to visit. I don’t know that Costa Rica was on the list. It wasn’t that we didn’t want to go there; it’s that we didn’t think about Costa Rica at all. Yeah,

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So, a few nights ago, Pam and I sat on a panel at an event sponsored by one of the many (too many) Facebook groups of which we are members. This group is lesbian focused and the panel was a discussion about relationships, led by Pam and I and another married lesbian couple.  The audience

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Alright, so let’s get right to it. I’m going to stay with our impromptu lying/honesty theme this week and address another sore spot for women trying to navigate these dating streets:  What women say that they want. It’s usually one of two things: either the woman doesn’t know what she wants, or she knows what

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All of this talk about online dating got me thinking about important transitions during the lifetime of a relationship. What do I mean? If you don’t already know, Pam and I met on match.com. We were living half of a country away – I was in Texas and she was in New Jersey. Neither of

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