A conversation online last week has me thinking about women’s general approach to relationships. There are lots of things that are fairly unique to the lesbian community and then there’s stuff that’s just women’s stuff. This is one of those things. It’s just double when it comes to us. The conversation was about how to

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I write this to you today as I am sitting outside, enjoying a little springtime sunshine while I watch our dog hunt landscapers (she and landscapers have a mostly one-sided hate-filled relationship). This weather has been promised to us for a long time – well, for a week. It feels longer. I checked the forecast

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Because we are social media lovers, Pam and I are in all of these Facebook groups that focus on anything and everything we are interested in. Amongst them, are several groups for lesbians. It must be the time of year – do people look for summer loves? Is that a thing? I feel like I’m

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So last week I shared with you that Pam and I met while living almost two thousand miles apart. After we lived apart for two years, we decided it was time to try to get closer to each other. As a college professor by trade, finding new jobs can be hit or miss, so I

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So, in my other life, I am a college professor. When the pandemic hit hard last March, our college switched to online and we still have not yet returned to campus. In the last year of working from home, I have developed what can only be affectionately called the “pandemic physique.” The pandemic physique primarily

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