Let’s face it: relationships can be hard. Some start off hard, others will likely hit some bumps along the road. The longer you’re with someone, the greater the chances that you’ll hit some rough spots. It happens in every relationship. Even if the troubles aren’t directly related to the two of you, there will be

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In our previous post, while talking about some of the dating struggles that lesbians who come out late in life might face, I wanted to be clear about one thing in particular: Coming out late in life doesn’t mean that you have to settle. Actually, that goes for everyone. Accepting a situation is not the

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Let’s talk about coming out later in life and some of the challenges. When Pam and I met, I was almost 35. To date, Pam has been my longest-term relationship with a woman. However, I wouldn’t categorize myself as someone who came out late in life. I’ve always known who I was; I just seldom

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So, Pam and I never really thought much about Costa Rica. We have a long (and growing!) list of places that we want to visit. I don’t know that Costa Rica was on the list. It wasn’t that we didn’t want to go there; it’s that we didn’t think about Costa Rica at all. Yeah,

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So, a few nights ago, Pam and I sat on a panel at an event sponsored by one of the many (too many) Facebook groups of which we are members. This group is lesbian focused and the panel was a discussion about relationships, led by Pam and I and another married lesbian couple.  The audience

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