Whenever Pam and I ask people about their challenges to finding that special someone, a lot of what we hear about is the struggle to find the one that “fits.” But what does it mean to “fit?” Is the right fit someone who is a lot like you? Or is it someone who is nothing

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As you may know by now, Pam and I love to travel. As we move about this new pandemic-induced world a bit more, we will be adding some travel content to our website as well, so be on the look out for that. Anyway, yesterday, Pam and I were working on a project that had

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Last week, I wrote to you about the transitions that can happen during the course of a relationship. This week, let’s take a little bit of a step back and ask whether you are really ready for a long-term relationship. It’s something that a lot of single folks claim they want. We live in a

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All of this talk about online dating got me thinking about important transitions during the lifetime of a relationship. What do I mean? If you don’t already know, Pam and I met on match.com. We were living half of a country away – I was in Texas and she was in New Jersey. Neither of

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I write to you on a sweltering week day, as I sit outside with our dog Brooklyn, a week after returning from our first vacation in about a year and a half! Whew! With that in mind, I want to write to you about the importance of taking a pause. Pam and I have been

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