So, a few nights ago, Pam and I sat on a panel at an event sponsored by one of the many (too many) Facebook groups of which we are members. This group is lesbian focused and the panel was a discussion about relationships, led by Pam and I and another married lesbian couple.  The audience

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All of this talk about online dating got me thinking about important transitions during the lifetime of a relationship. What do I mean? If you don’t already know, Pam and I met on match.com. We were living half of a country away – I was in Texas and she was in New Jersey. Neither of

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Talker.  That’s one word I can use to describe my dad.  Boy, that man could talk.  He could spend hours on the phone talking. No sooner than he hung up with one person, he’d pick up the phone, dial it, and chat it up with someone else.  You could be a complete stranger and he’d

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Completely random thought: I am not a movie buff. I don’t hunt down all of the newest flicks and I tend to watch the same kinds of movies, even with the same actors all of the time. But there are a handful of movies – well, probably more than a handful – that, even within

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I’ve been thinking about risk taking. Let the universe tell it, women are not big risk takers. I guess I can’t argue with that too much. There’s probably a grain of truth to it. But we do take risks. We just take calculated risks. So this risk I took was probably the biggest one I’d

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