As you may know by now, Pam and I love to travel. As we move about this new pandemic-induced world a bit more, we will be adding some travel content to our website as well, so be on the look out for that. Anyway, yesterday, Pam and I were working on a project that had

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I write to you on a sweltering week day, as I sit outside with our dog Brooklyn, a week after returning from our first vacation in about a year and a half! Whew! With that in mind, I want to write to you about the importance of taking a pause. Pam and I have been

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Talker.  That’s one word I can use to describe my dad.  Boy, that man could talk.  He could spend hours on the phone talking. No sooner than he hung up with one person, he’d pick up the phone, dial it, and chat it up with someone else.  You could be a complete stranger and he’d

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So last time, I wrote about how women oftentimes believe that we can change people, when the truth of the matter is that all we can ever really do is encourage change. It is totally up to the other person to actually make the changes. This leads me to the subject of red flags. Our

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A conversation online last week has me thinking about women’s general approach to relationships. There are lots of things that are fairly unique to the lesbian community and then there’s stuff that’s just women’s stuff. This is one of those things. It’s just double when it comes to us. The conversation was about how to

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