Because we are social media lovers, Pam and I are in all of these Facebook groups that focus on anything and everything we are interested in. Amongst them, are several groups for lesbians. It must be the time of year – do people look for summer loves? Is that a thing? I feel like I’m

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So last week I shared with you that Pam and I met while living almost two thousand miles apart. After we lived apart for two years, we decided it was time to try to get closer to each other. As a college professor by trade, finding new jobs can be hit or miss, so I

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So, in my other life, I am a college professor. When the pandemic hit hard last March, our college switched to online and we still have not yet returned to campus. In the last year of working from home, I have developed what can only be affectionately called the “pandemic physique.” The pandemic physique primarily

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I’ve been thinking about risk taking. Let the universe tell it, women are not big risk takers. I guess I can’t argue with that too much. There’s probably a grain of truth to it. But we do take risks. We just take calculated risks. So this risk I took was probably the biggest one I’d

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One of the scariest things about online dating is that you never really know who is behind the profile that caught your eye. They could be as lovely as they appear or they could turn out to be the son of Satan who was sent to reform school because he was too bad for even

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